My view on age range

By all means, if it makes you happy, then go for it. I don't care. Alls I can talk about is my view and preferances.

I have nothing against hooking up with a hot MILF or a DILF, for you females, but any kind of relationship is probably just a bad idea. I'm talking about this because I know a lot of women that date/are married to WAY older men and I got offered a blind date last night:
"Jay, I've got a blind date for you."
"Cool, tell me about her."
"Well, she's from England."
"Oh, ok. What else? How old is she?"
"She's 39."
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"Uhh... Er... I'm 25. That's a bit out of my age range."
"What's your age range?"
"Guh... 23.. to... maybe 30?"
"Eh.. You make me feel old."

She's 31. Her husband is almost 50, so I was treading this water lightly. I thanked her, turned her down and went back to work.

Again, by all means, if it makes you happy, that's all that matters. More power to you. But dating outside your age is a BAD IDEA for most people. A man that's in his 40s and is picking up women in their 20s or a man in his 30s picking up women in their fucking TEENS is a frank garauntee of GROSS immaturity.

Older people have been in your shoes and have had the problems of a 20-something-year-old. The first time you hear a younger person say, "Oh wow, have you heard of this band called Metallica? They kick ass!" should immediately turn you off of younger mates. Yes, we heard of Metallica and had already gotten sick of them by the time you discovered power rangers and teen titans. And it's not just bands that sold out long ago. Every subject is like this. We've been there. We've done that. We don't want to do it again. But for some reason, some immature people do.

There are perfect matches for imperfect people. There are warped teens that were abused as children and fat bishes that deserve older, grossly immature men.

But let's look at what it means for a young man to have a relationship with an older woman:
What goes through the young man's mind? Is she hot? Maybe, but she'd be hotter 10-20 years younger. Will she respect him as much as a younger woman? Probably not. Does he know this? If he doesnt, he'll find out.
So why would HE do this? Inexperience, low self-esteam, and most likely, some fetish are my guesses.

-every thing bellow this line is me guessing/speculating-

Now why would an older woman date a much younger man? Let's think of it from her point of view: What can he offer her? Or better yet, what is she expecting from having a serious relationship with this young man? Kids? Money? Not likely. She's probably got both by this point. Companionship? If she's looking for long-term companionship with a much younger man, then her expectations are very low or her sex drive is in full swing and isn't being sated and she doesn't want a real relationship....
Faaaurk... Now I kinda want to go on that date just to get some booty... BUT NO.... My standards are high and I want to find a woman to love for a long time. I MUST BE STRONG!!!